Hi Sorabh and others,
In the chart of your cousin you said â€œthe 5th lord Mars in Virgo â€“ a sign of chastityâ€. To respond to that, in my humble opinion, two things come to mind: 1. Virgo is the only sign represented by a human symbol, and being the natural 6th house of the zodiac, one cannot expect Virgo to have an easy deal. I see any sign more for what we must strive towards (if we can) and not (necessarily) for what we have â€“ hence the notion of purity is more the idea of striving for perfection through failings and discontentment rather than perfection/chastity/purity being a given.. 2. Mars is in no way comfortable in Virgo the sign of an enemy (Me); besides in this chart, Mars is having a raw deal on the account of its conjunction with his enemy Saturn AND being conjunct to the 8th house lord. Some relief comes from Jupiterâ€™s impact though and through the beneficsâ€™ aspect to the 5th house.
Cancer lagna are meant to have a difficult karma in relationships â€“ this is a general statement, not to be taken literally I hope. The 7th lord is a natural malefic, Saturn is cold and distant planet, Saturn and Moon do not get along, and the 7th lord also owns a dusthana the 8th house - that is why.
In Jaimini the 3rd is regarded as a sexual house, and malefics there damage the Dharma (principles) by the aspect onto the 9th. Also it is not considered good to have the 7th lord in the 3rd making the spouse more sexually extroverted or lustful; while with the 8th lord in the 3rd more than one attachment/marriage is indicated. Of course none of these statements should be taken at face value on their own but they can add up to whatever else the chart shows, as usual. I just wanted to expose some ideas on the 3rd house issue here.
Otherwise I find thereâ€™s a lot of emphasis on the 12th house in this chart. And the 6/12 axis of Rahu and Ketu can easily lead to indulgences, extravagances, and major swings in life. Rahu in the 12th wants to experience it all, in all its shades and sexual intrigues is definitely one on the agenda. The 12th is the house of bed pleasures.
Venus in the 11th would make him very "ambitious" in his relationships. The exalted Moon, the Venus in Taurus and the Sun/Rahu conjunction would make him stand out being particularly attractive and manly in the eyes of women.
Here are a few ideas for you:
Charts of celebrities: writer Anais Nin whoâ€™s a master of secretive behaviour: she had a long-standing secret affair with Henry Miller, she also had a brief affair with her own father who abandoned her as a child, and as if that wasnâ€™t enough she also managed to be married to two men at the same time, both living on the opposite coast of the country so that it took them forever to find out ; John Kennedy who is known for his many love affairs, the most famous one being with Marilyn Monroe.
Now real life people:
1. -B (male): Oct 2, â€™67, 01:10 am, country: Ireland, state: county Dublin, city:Dublin.
Coordinates: 06W15/53N20 Cancer lagna.
Was at the receiving end of it, in Rahu/Rahu and/or Rahu/Jupiter.
2.-S (female): Oct12, â€™74, 09:00 am, country: Irel., state: co.Dublin, city: Dublin.
Coordianates: same as above. Libra lagna.
Was having an affair with a guy who was already taken in Mo/Ju.
3.-M (female): May 17, â€™77, 08:05am, country: Canada, state: Alberta, city: Edmonton
Coordinates: 113W30/53N33 Gemini lagna.
Has been having an on & off relationship (relationship broken by some long distance separation) with somebody who was already taken.
4-B (female): May 19, â€™74, 14:45, country: Germany, state: Baden-Wurttemberg, city: Freiburg.
Has been having affairs with married people and one-night stands of late.
None of the real life people are actually married, so I'm considering affairs to take place when we're talking of committed relationships.
I think it's hard to pin-point combinations that'd definitely work, as I think, there are very often other combinations that can tone down any issue.
For example a monk may do everything to lead a life of celibacy, but if love/relationships do seem to be indicated in the chart, a woman would certainly come into his life at the right moment, but if his chart is strong otherwise for renunciation and sticking to a commitment, then he would be able to not indulge and bypass the temptation, however hard and painful it may be; another monk may not be as lucky with his vows and would have to quit his monastery.
I see potential danger looming more with combinations that promote strong sexual energy - like Malavya yoga and Hamsa yoga. Chamara yoga with Mercury and Venus together in 7th or 10th is not a good yoga for marital felicity and is supposed to make one too indulgent and lustful - although the influence of another benefic on this combination may help eventually. Moon and Jupiter together are not good either in the 7th as they can make one too active sexually.
Faith is the bird that sings when the dawn is still dark.