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Basic compatibility request for wedding

Postby Tiwari » Mon Jun 11, 2012 8:07 pm

Dear All:

Here are the details of a guy and girl who are interested in tying the knot, but want to proceed with the matching of the charts first. The gun milap is 27, but I don't know how much to trust that. It would be great of someone could just throw some light on the quality of their prospective relationship and future happiness. I will be grateful.

Boy: 17th Nov, 1985, 01:35 AM Indore
Girl: 2nd July, 1986, 09:07 AM, Varanasi.

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Re: Basic compatibility request for wedding

Postby lovacrs » Tue Jun 12, 2012 1:51 am

Tiwari ji,

Match looks good, I got higher guna points though. Dasa sequence of the boy may pose challenge. But girl's looks ok. Here is a report:

Varna :1
Vasya :2
Tara :3
Yoni :2
Rashyadhipathi :5
Gana :6
Bhakoot :4
Nadi :8
Total out of 36 :31
Stree Dirgha :Very Good
Mahendra Koota :Compatible
Rajju :Compatible
Vedha :No Vedha
Stree Purva/Eka Nak. :No Dosha
Papa points Boy
From----Lagna From--Chandra From---Shukra
Graha Posn Point Posn Point Posn Point
Sun 4 1 12 1 2 1
Mars 2 1 10 0 12 1
Saturn 4 1 12 1 2 1
Rahu 9 0 5 0 7 1
Ketu 3 0 11 0 1 1
Total 3 2 5
Papa points Girl
From----Lagna From--Chandra From---Shukra
Graha Posn Point Posn Point Posn Point
Sun 11 0 3 0 12 1
Mars 5 0 9 0 6 0
Saturn 4 1 8 1 5 0
Rahu 9 0 1 1 10 0
Ketu 3 0 7 1 4 1
Total 1 3 2
Boy manglik from Lagna,Shukra(Kuja Dosha mitigations: Sa in 1/4/7/8/12 from lagna)

Disclaimer: This is based on my limited knowledge. Please feel free to seek advise from others
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Re: Basic compatibility request for wedding

Postby Tiwari » Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:34 am

Thanks lovacrs --

lovacrs wrote:Tiwari ji,

Match looks good, I got higher guna points though. Dasa sequence of the boy may pose challenge. But girl's looks ok. Here is a report:

Varna :1
Vasya :2
Tara :3
Yoni :2
Rashyadhipathi :5
Gana :6
Bhakoot :4
Nadi :8
Total out of 36 :31
Stree Dirgha :Very Good
Mahendra Koota :Compatible
Rajju :Compatible
Vedha :No Vedha
Stree Purva/Eka Nak. :No Dosha
Papa points Boy
From----Lagna From--Chandra From---Shukra
Graha Posn Point Posn Point Posn Point
Sun 4 1 12 1 2 1
Mars 2 1 10 0 12 1
Saturn 4 1 12 1 2 1
Rahu 9 0 5 0 7 1
Ketu 3 0 11 0 1 1
Total 3 2 5
Papa points Girl
From----Lagna From--Chandra From---Shukra
Graha Posn Point Posn Point Posn Point
Sun 11 0 3 0 12 1
Mars 5 0 9 0 6 0
Saturn 4 1 8 1 5 0
Rahu 9 0 1 1 10 0
Ketu 3 0 7 1 4 1
Total 1 3 2
Boy manglik from Lagna,Shukra(Kuja Dosha mitigations: Sa in 1/4/7/8/12 from lagna)

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Re: Basic compatibility request for wedding

Postby astroboy » Fri Jun 15, 2012 2:01 am

Good day Lovacrs ji,

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Out of Academic interest, Don't you think the boys Papa points are too high ? We are talking about a 40 % + difference. I wonder if that is healthy.I know the rule states that the Girls Papa points should be lesser than the boy's. But In this case, I feel the difference is way too much. What is your opinion ?
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Re: Basic compatibility request for wedding

Postby lovacrs » Fri Jun 15, 2012 2:21 am

Astroboy ji.

I agree that many people believe in matching charts with comparable paapa points AND boy's being slightly higher than Girl's. My understanding is that the paapa points shows up in behaviours like aggression. When these dicta were laid down, the society was male dominated (including Kerala which is supposed to be matrilineal :D ). An agressive girl would have probably run into lot of trouble, whereas agression for a man was the "given" thing :D . But even today I personally do not believe that agression on both sides balances out. One advantage of our time is that marriage is happening closer to 30s at which point the agression is supposed to run out of steam :lol: .

But I think, we will have to look at the guna match, paapa points and others and most important the dasa sequence to come to a comprehnsive opinion (I am shying away from the word 'Judgement' :lol: ).
In this case other factors look quite good/OK. Plus there is a slight mitigation of Kuja dosha.
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Re: Basic compatibility request for wedding

Postby astroboy » Fri Jun 15, 2012 2:41 am

:) I see your point. Considering the power women have these days, It's better that men have a very high Papa point percentage, compared to women. :D
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Re: Basic compatibility request for wedding

Postby astroboy » Fri Jun 15, 2012 2:48 am

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Re: Basic compatibility request for wedding

Postby lovacrs » Fri Jun 15, 2012 5:26 am

Thanks Astrobiy ji.

I think Bhakoot has contributed the difference in guna points (27 that Tiwari ji quotes against 31 that I got).
Also can you please explain what is the second Vasya appearing in the last row?

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Re: Basic compatibility request for wedding

Postby Tiwari » Fri Jun 15, 2012 5:48 am

I have one small query: does the guna point mean anything? Or is it more intricate, meaning, looking at different planets, their transpositions on the guy and girl's charts?? Does scoring high on guna point mean anything? Thanks
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Re: Basic compatibility request for wedding

Postby lovacrs » Fri Jun 15, 2012 5:57 am

I would think that they represent mutual disposition on various aspects based on astrological rules.
But is the scoring system a balanced representation? That is probably a question very few can answer.
Even if someone like Sri K.N.Rao may have done a statistical study on validity of this, it is unlikely that they would have found enough material to come up with an alternative.
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Re: Basic compatibility request for wedding

Postby Tiwari » Fri Jun 15, 2012 9:15 am

Thanks lovacrs!
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Re: Basic compatibility request for wedding

Postby astroboy » Fri Jun 15, 2012 3:29 pm

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Tiwari, what do you like about these two images?
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Re: Basic compatibility request for wedding

Postby Tiwari » Fri Jun 15, 2012 3:35 pm

I like nothing about the two images. They are just too mechanical and cold. :)
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Re: Basic compatibility request for wedding

Postby astroboy » Fri Jun 15, 2012 4:01 pm

by Tiwari » Sat Jun 16, 2012 7:05 am
I like nothing about the two images. They are just too mechanical and cold. :)

That is exactly what happens to a marriage when the stars don't match.
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