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Husband's Ketu Mahadasha - settle abroad?

Post by jmusic » Wed Sep 27, 2017 5:40 pm

Namaste.

Here are birth details:

Husband
DOB 09/May/1981
TOB 15:30
Place Ahmedabad, Gujarat, India

Wife
DOB 07/August/1979
TOB 10:25
Place Rajkot, Gujarat, India

Fell in love in 2001. Told parents in 2002. Husband's mother not happy. Husband's family very unsupportive. Faced problems in courtship period due to wife's insecurity about husband's family. But finally got married in 2004. Very less financial support from in-laws. Though they did help in paying rental deposit. Husband was earning only 7000 out of which 6000 went for rent in Mumbai. Wife started working and with that money the house expenses were met. Even wife's family helped financially in some ways. Wife belongs to financially better off family and had never seen such less money ever.

Never went on honeymoon. Set up home and everything by themselves. No help or support from in-laws. They did not even visit once. Husband has elder brother and elder sister. Both divorced. Elder brother remarried. Even in less salary husband always had the feeling of obligation towards parents and siblings and never appreciated wife.

Within 6 months of marriage, husband got promotion. Direct 25,000 salary from 7,000. Then in another 6 months got another promotion. From 25,000 to 40,0000. Husband always talked about sending money to parents but never asked wife if she wants anything. Just took wife for granted.

However in 2006, they purchased an apartment. Husband's father helped with 4Lacs but till today husband's brother taunts about it though husband and wife have left all stake in ancestral property and not asked for 1 rs from them and husband has helped them with more money than 4Lacs already. Given to divorced sister, mother etc.

You must be thinking that if the husband is taking wife so much for granted, why does she not divorce him? Wife faced two very bad experiences in love where she was cheated. Husband came in her life when she had lost all will to be alive so she considers and loves him like her blessing from God.

In August 2007, husband got job offer abroad with more than double salary and they moved. That was probably the best time of their lives though wife did face bouts of depression due to Rahu mahadasha. Husband lost father in 2009. Things deteriorated lot after that in husband-wife relation. Finance wise it was good as in the earning was good but they never invested properly for which they are suffering now. Sex life very bad.

Husband always telling wife go away/divorce. So both scared to have children which the wife regretting now. In 2012 september, husband's contract got over and he changed job in same country but another city with better pay. But in 6 months, that company closed with lots of dues not paid. Husband and wife fought for that in another country and had to do court case on company too. At that time too, no support from husband family. Wife's family fully supported.

But finally they got back their money and returned to India in 2013 June. Husband wanted to do business but at wife's insistence, applied for other jobs but no success. Even in business from July 2013 till now, no success. Income has become only 10% of former income and that too half is from interest from FDs. Not able to adjust in India with the business culture and mentality here. Both struggling.

Wife advised husband to go study in Canada because his profession has very good scope there but husband did not go in spite of getting admission 3 times in Canada college. Now trying for PR but points are less due to increased age. Just now living in husband's home town but not with his parents. Living in rental home which is very nice. Husband's brother behaved very badly when they lived in his parents home only for few days.

Now husband can see his family's attitude and has gone through so much hardship with support of wife so appreciates wife better but still there are problems sometimes. Wife feels most of her life is wasted. Might this be due to Shrapit dosha in her horoscope?

No sex life. No children. Lots and lot of worries about finances. Don't like living here. Feeling of wasted life. Only solution seems to move abroad away from everyone because that was when they were happiest.

Tried gemstones, poojas, mantras, yantras, remedies, everything. Nothing working.

Wife wishes:

1) To move abroad (Job or PR) and have a good family life again
2) To have a healthy child or children if possible
3) Love from husband and good health for both

Husband wishes to do good work like before.

Do you think this is possible? Sorry for the long post but had to give background.



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Re: Husband's Ketu Mahadasha - settle abroad?

Post by Sujit » Thu Sep 28, 2017 7:57 pm

jmusic wrote:
Wed Sep 27, 2017 5:40 pm
Namaste.

Here are birth details:

Husband
DOB 09/May/1981
TOB 15:30
Place Ahmedabad, Gujarat, India

Wife
DOB 07/August/1979
TOB 10:25
Place Rajkot, Gujarat, India

Fell in love in 2001. Told parents in 2002. Husband's mother not happy. Husband's family very unsupportive. Faced problems in courtship period due to wife's insecurity about husband's family. But finally got married in 2004. Very less financial support from in-laws. Though they did help in paying rental deposit. Husband was earning only 7000 out of which 6000 went for rent in Mumbai. Wife started working and with that money the house expenses were met. Even wife's family helped financially in some ways. Wife belongs to financially better off family and had never seen such less money ever.

Never went on honeymoon. Set up home and everything by themselves. No help or support from in-laws. They did not even visit once. Husband has elder brother and elder sister. Both divorced. Elder brother remarried. Even in less salary husband always had the feeling of obligation towards parents and siblings and never appreciated wife.

Within 6 months of marriage, husband got promotion. Direct 25,000 salary from 7,000. Then in another 6 months got another promotion. From 25,000 to 40,0000. Husband always talked about sending money to parents but never asked wife if she wants anything. Just took wife for granted.

However in 2006, they purchased an apartment. Husband's father helped with 4Lacs but till today husband's brother taunts about it though husband and wife have left all stake in ancestral property and not asked for 1 rs from them and husband has helped them with more money than 4Lacs already. Given to divorced sister, mother etc.

You must be thinking that if the husband is taking wife so much for granted, why does she not divorce him? Wife faced two very bad experiences in love where she was cheated. Husband came in her life when she had lost all will to be alive so she considers and loves him like her blessing from God.

In August 2007, husband got job offer abroad with more than double salary and they moved. That was probably the best time of their lives though wife did face bouts of depression due to Rahu mahadasha. Husband lost father in 2009. Things deteriorated lot after that in husband-wife relation. Finance wise it was good as in the earning was good but they never invested properly for which they are suffering now. Sex life very bad.

Husband always telling wife go away/divorce. So both scared to have children which the wife regretting now. In 2012 september, husband's contract got over and he changed job in same country but another city with better pay. But in 6 months, that company closed with lots of dues not paid. Husband and wife fought for that in another country and had to do court case on company too. At that time too, no support from husband family. Wife's family fully supported.

But finally they got back their money and returned to India in 2013 June. Husband wanted to do business but at wife's insistence, applied for other jobs but no success. Even in business from July 2013 till now, no success. Income has become only 10% of former income and that too half is from interest from FDs. Not able to adjust in India with the business culture and mentality here. Both struggling.

Wife advised husband to go study in Canada because his profession has very good scope there but husband did not go in spite of getting admission 3 times in Canada college. Now trying for PR but points are less due to increased age. Just now living in husband's home town but not with his parents. Living in rental home which is very nice. Husband's brother behaved very badly when they lived in his parents home only for few days.

Now husband can see his family's attitude and has gone through so much hardship with support of wife so appreciates wife better but still there are problems sometimes. Wife feels most of her life is wasted. Might this be due to Shrapit dosha in her horoscope?

No sex life. No children. Lots and lot of worries about finances. Don't like living here. Feeling of wasted life. Only solution seems to move abroad away from everyone because that was when they were happiest.

Tried gemstones, poojas, mantras, yantras, remedies, everything. Nothing working.

Wife wishes:

1) To move abroad (Job or PR) and have a good family life again
2) To have a healthy child or children if possible
3) Love from husband and good health for both

Husband wishes to do good work like before.

Do you think this is possible? Sorry for the long post but had to give background.
Current maha dasa is ruled by malefic Ketu and antara is ruled by Saturn. Both planets give worries and anxiety. The chart has good placement of lagna lord in 9th with Venus in own house is favorable for wealth, health, marriage, children and job. The planet Moon is placed in own house is favorable for fulfilling desires, income and gains and Jupiterin own house is favorable for knowledge,finances and wisdom. There is good potential in the chart and planets are likely to give better results Under next maha dasa of Venus.
Current time is likely to become good later this month and 2018 is likely to be good for job, foreign travels.
Good luck.
Sujit
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Re: Husband's Ketu Mahadasha - settle abroad?

Post by jmusic » Fri Oct 06, 2017 8:40 pm

[quote=Sujit post_id=244477 time=1506664656 user_id=2269]

Current maha dasa is ruled by malefic Ketu and antara is ruled by Saturn. Both planets give worries and anxiety. The chart has good placement of lagna lord in 9th with Venus in own house is favorable for wealth, health, marriage, children and job. The planet Moon is placed in own house is favorable for fulfilling desires, income and gains and Jupiterin own house is favorable for knowledge,finances and wisdom. There is good potential in the chart and planets are likely to give better results Under next maha dasa of Venus.
Current time is likely to become good later this month and 2018 is likely to be good for job, foreign travels.
Good luck.
Sujit
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Dear Sujit ji,

Thanks for your reply. Not to not believe in your astrology knowledge and prediction and with full respect, I wish to mention that this is what we have been hearing from astrologers since like forever. Nothing ever changes. Pooja-path, mantra-yantra, fasting, going to temples...we have done it all. But still no changes...2017 has been especially bad - income wise. No romance in life, no intimacy, nothing. Should we go in for a divorce? Are we doomed to live like this? Is the wife unlucky for the husband or vice versa? Before this husband had Budh dasha and wife had Rahu...things were bad but at least they were living in a nice country and earning well. Now husband has Ketu dasha and wife Guru, but things going from bad to worse.

Wife really tired and depressed...if it was not about hurting old parents, she would have committed suicide for sure. So tired...so so tired...need change and love in life. Will she ever get it? Thanks.

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Re: Husband's Ketu Mahadasha - settle abroad?

Post by Suresh_Chauhan » Sun Oct 08, 2017 5:13 pm

Jmusic, the thing about astro predictions - it is not cause and effect type of situation. Can never be 100% certain otherwise astros would give you taamrapatra with their signature on it.

You must know that just because you are suffering bad things, it doesn't mean you did bad deeds in this life or even previous lives! That is the whole mystery. It maybe inciddental and you're just getting caught in crossfire . It may be bad time in general and you are just part of it.

If the present life situation is not what you planned, or expected, then you will have to choose alternate route. After all, we have to live for ourselves and often have to go the full distance alone.

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